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Thursday, November 29, 2012

It's Been Awhile....

Well, apparently I have not felt like writing in this blog for four months.  Thanks for the reminders everyone.  

I will have to upload pictures later.  Since you all watch my FB and get updates, I'm sure you have seen everything you need to see for now.

Since I can't possibly recap four months and as the terrible parent I am, I can't think of one thing that happened in four months (Mommy brain), I'll just tell you stuff that is random and not organized.

Well, the holidays are upon us.  I knew this was going to be a long season when I wandered into Target in April when they were putting out back to school stuff- SERIOUSLY?! I haven't even ENDED the current school year and you are putting out NEXT year's stuff.  Then, in July, the winter coats came out.  I'm not stupid.  Time to buy.  I've played that game before with Target.  This is the "I'm going to wait until it's actually cold to buy a coat for my kids. - Call my bluff, Target!"  And then, bam! It's cold, there are no gloves, no hats, no boots under 45 dollars and the only coat left is some ugly lime green thing in a size NB.  However, for your shopping pleasure there is a LARGE display of bathingsuits out immediately after Christmas.  No way.  Abby and I actually went to Walmart and scoured for gloves.  I bought THREE pair in her size and Brooks's size.  Those little things get lost, and by February, I'm wrapping the kids' hands in socks and lunch bags because I can't find another glove.  Let alone a matching set.  And as far as boots, don't get me started.  Last year we were so excited that Brooks got super-cool snow boots.  IT NEVER SNOWED.  Now, the only pair in this house in his size is pink.  Do I gamble?  Keep the pink and hope for now snow?  Or, keep the pink and get slammed with a blizzard so hard there are nine million pictures of the kid out in plastic baggy hands and pink boots- smells like the makings of a serial killer to me.  So, anyone out there- Brooks needs snow boots for Christmas (size 7 - or 8 so we can hopefully reuse next year). 

In continuing my deal with the holidays, I was all "done" with shopping.  I was really excited about my "score" and "winning" on ebay with my Rapunzel Castle set complete with light up Rapunzel.  And I saved a ton of money.  I set it up and played with it and was oohing and ahhing over Flynn.  And then... Ray bought Abby a Power Wheels car.  Bam.  Done.  I can already see next Wednesday when Abby turns five.  I will present her with the super awesome castle.  Ray will present her with the even more awesome car.  Rapunzel will be strewn all about and backed over and run over with the car.  Ta ta Flynn Ryder.  

 I'm waiting around making sure the DVR can kick on for Project Runway AND Happy Feet simultaneously.  After it DELETED everything we had on there last week, I'm a little bit surly and untrusting of that piece of crap.  Anyway, that was a detour of complaints.

I think that the Christmas shopping is done for the kids.  I've been cross-referencing against the lists of things that the grandparents are disclosing, and with what I expect them to be unwrapping for birthdays (Abby's is next).  My mom and I went and laid away mostly everything in October.  That was nice because it wasn't in the house, and I was pretty much done before bathingsuit Christmas season at Target started.

We finally got our family photos done.  There are very few pictures of Brooks around the house.  It's like one of two things- a time warp (where we don't want to admit we are aging or that Abby is older than two) or second child syndrome/issues.  Brooks photographs so well, it's hard not to snap nine million pictures of him.  What is hard is getting those suckers developed.  And then, when we remember to do that, they get "put away" for framing.  Never framed.  And then reprinted because I'm not quite sure where they are, or the pictures are six months old.  So, we finally got our family photos done.  We had to reschedule for various reasons and the last time we could get them done was on a Saturday a few weeks ago.  The first COLD Saturday morning of the year.  35 degrees cold.  Rudolph red nose cold.  Our pictures worked well for the first seven minutes.  Then, it was pretty much done.  There are bags of chips strewn everywhere in those photos that you can't see- that's how we got the kids to smile and follow us when they kept trying to run away and get in the warm car.  It turned out well (for the most part).  The (one) family photo worked out well (except I have my glasses on).  There were a few good ones of the kids when I swear are photo-shopped to hell.  

So, goal - frame these pictures before Brooks turns seven.

Alright, I need to get some stuff done.  The DVR is working.  

I promise to try to post soon.

Friday, July 20, 2012

Summer!



I have not written in a VERY long time.  It has been kind of a whirlwind between the end of the school year and the beginning (and now middle) of summer.  The kids have been enjoying the hot weather.  It's amazing how they don't seem to mind the heat despite the hot that the humidity is kicking and there is a constant stream of sunlight.  They also like to utilize this time to do dangerous stunts- such as swinging off of the ladder from the swingset to do "cool tricks" and trying to flip from face to butt first halfway down the slide.  On the cold days, parents get to sit in the lawnchair and watch the action, on the hot days we get to spot the gymnastic and aerobatic acts that are performed continuously in the yard.  Why can't the kids just play in the sandbox?  Why does no one use that little green turtle full of trucks and sand?  I would- it's shady, entertaining and doesn't require much effort.  But maybe that's not fun. 

We have been doing some indoor things too.  Brooks has been to the Walter's Art Gallery twice and Abby has gone once.  They really like going on weekends for Family Art Days.  Kids of all ages can go during weekend hours (it's all free)- check out art things to wear, use or read during their trip to the museum and complete an art inspired craft.  While we don't really "look" at all of the artifacts, we do like to peruse the "really big pictures" and the "statues with no underwear." 







The kids have been busy with Ray during the day since I have been working, and I know that they have been spending a lot of time in the big blue pool and doing some outdoor things.  They really like being outside (see above) and Ray likes being outside too.  Perfect match.  It's been busy around here, and even though it's summer, it hasn't really slowed down.  I've been meaning to clean the basement for about three months and I've only been down there for laundry.  I'm sure Ray has a plethora of things to do, and none of them are done.  Where has our summer gone?  Where is the time?  We have been reading a lot more and both kids go to the library at least once a week.  We are whipping through the summer reading program. 

Brooks has started talking more- hi, bye, cookie, my poop, thank you, love you, no, and sit down are his favorites now.  Unless you know him, he needs a translator.  Everything garbles together, but he is just learning and working very hard with his words.  He is VERY interested in trucks (cars, as he calls everything).  He points them out everywhere we go.  Ray had to take him to the tire place today and apparently he wanted to go into the garage and help and ogle the cars there.  He has amassed some cars from around the house- an old Jeep with no remote control, Barbie's VW bug and dune buggy with no roof, some dump trucks and some other things that we had from Abby when she used to like cars and trucks.  He plays with them ALL OF THE TIME.  In fact, when we got back from Florida, the first thing that he ran for was his pile of cars and trucks.  He said "vroom" and "honk" and sat down to play right away.  He likes to read books about trucks, look at Car and Driver and point out Jeeps everywhere he goes.  Very cute.

Abby is very much into reading.  She likes to play bookstore, library and school.  I can see where this is going.  She also likes to dress up, play doctor and "cook" in her play kitchen and in our kitchen and swim.  She has been taking lessons at Kids First Swim School.  Last summer she would not get off of the ladder and we were heading in that direction this year.  The year prior she was fearless in the water.  This frustrated me because I was a lifeguard many moons ago.  I also taught swim lessons.  But, it's the old adage- kids won't learn from their parents new tricks.  So, we signed her up for classes.  From class one, she has been kicking, blowing bubbles and going under water- voluntarily.  Hooray! Success! I think that we might keep her in year round.  She is very excited about the Olympics.  I DVR'd some of the trials for her of swimming and gymnastics and it's all stars and glitter in her eyes.  She wants to take gymnastics.  I'll look into that maybe in the fall.  She is jealous that I said that Brooks could take dance when he turns two (promotes listening and energy outlets- perfect)- but I reminded her that she cried the whole time and wasted my dance tuition money and that new pair of tap shoes.  She made the stink eye and ran into the other room.  I think that if I presented her with new goggles or some gymnastics like leotard she might be fine with that. 
The Berenstain Bears are super popular in this house.  I have read about manners, gimmies, food, spooky caves, holidays, jobs and church.  Abby likes to point out the pictures of the books that she has read on the back of the paperback books.  My favorite is when she doesn't get the names quite right- for instance- The Berenstain Bears and Too Much Money (WHAT?!?! I want to know the lesson in that one).  or The Berenstain Bears Eat Lunch - that sounds like a snoozer.   I do remember reading these when I was little.  The first one I ever got was for my birthday and it was the one about birthdays.  I read it (or had it read to me) a lot.  It was my favorite and I was excited that these bears were making a show in our house.  At least we are moving away from those Dora books.  Ugh.  If you have not read one, let me give you a hint:  Hola.  I'm Dora.  I have an adventure.  We have to stop Swiper.  (Insert boring plot line here in short choppy sentences, throw in a map and then magically solve all riddles with short choppy sentences.)  Thanks amigos.  Mommy falls asleep after reading.  For.  The.  Nineteenth.  Time.

We just got back from Florida.  The Henry's are not a vacationing folk.  Ray and I used to travel LOTS.  LOTS.  LOTS.  Then we got old, poor and had a couple of kids.  (Reverse the order- had kids then got poor.)  We went to Tampa to visit his parents and had a nice time.  It's always nice to stay somewhere where the kids have their own room, and there are two people who dote on your kids and let you take breaks.  And use their pool and big jacuzzi tub.  It was actually a very fun trip for us.  Minus the fact that there were a few sleeping issues- my big pet peeve with the kids.  We ended up taking a day trip to Disney with Abby.  She had never been, we wanted to go and we bit the bullet and bought the tickets to the Magic Kingdom.  It was great.  I am not an amusement park fan.  I hate rollercoasters, big crowds of fat people with white sneakers and backpacks and matching shirts, and carnival food as a meal.  But, Disney was AMAZING.  Clean.  Happy.  Friendly.  Polite.  Even in sweltering direct heat.  We were disgusting by the end of the long day, but it was fantastic and I would do it again and again and again.  Abby loved meeting the characters and we rode about five rides.  Abby and Ray did Big Thunder Mountain Railroad- I was very impressed with them both (well, him for dealing with her and her for doing it.)  I can't wait to go back one day. 

We also went to the beach while we were in Florida.  It was nice to take them to the Gulf because there were no big waves.  One of the best things (and my camera was not with me) was when Brooks and I were on a deck that overlooked the water.  He wanted to spend his time running up and down the deck's ramp.  Earlier that morning, Ray and Abby were in the water and heard and saw Dolphins about 30 feet from them.  They were very close and in shallow water. There were many of them.  I heard the same thing when Brooks was running around.  I looked over the deck and saw a dolphin coming straight to shore.  It swam around some people who could touch it and big blue fish were jumping everywhere (the tide was in).  It came right up to the deck and blew air out of the blowhole.  I was amazed.  They are so beautiful.  Brooks came up and started yelling at it over the rails.  He seemed excited.  I would have taken him down in the water except I was worried he would make a racket about me taking him away from the deck.  I was really excited to see his first dolphin with him and it was very close to us!  A man next to us said he has been at this beach for ten years and has never seen one eating that close to shore. 

The kids did well on the plane.  One the way down, Ray sat with Brooks.  His ears popped because he wouldn't drink something on the way up and then was a big crab pot for part of the trip.  Abby was great and read on the Nook a lot.  On the way back, I got Brooks.  I geared up for two hours of madness, but he fell asleep for an hour and I enjoyed my in flight silence and snack while he was in his carseat.  I was about to turn around and make smirking faces at Ray like "ha ha look at my trip with Brooks" when he woke up.  Sigh.  He was very good though.  We read a lot of books, ate some snacks, and I took him to the plane bathroom with me where he cried because it was scary.  The plane wasn't full, so he was able to get out and mess with the seatbelt on the seat beside of me for awhile.  The kids were great, our luggage didn't get lost and other than the TSA being rude, the airline was very helpful.  On the way down TSA security told Ray to shove the stroller through the Xray belt.  It got stuck in the machine and they told us that it was ridiculous that people fly with kids.  They told Ray to get the stroller out and he refused.  Isn't that a security breach to tamper with the TSA equipment.  So, we held up the ENTIRE line.  Oops.  Then, they still had to use their little beeping magic wand on the stroller.  Over and over and over.  On the way home, I saw them using the wand on a newborn who was asleep in his Mom's snuggy sack.  I kind of felt bad for them being randomly pulled even after walking through the little beeping wall/scanner.  Traveling with kids is not as easy as when we threw stuff in a bag and left on a whim.  It's a process that requires weeks of careful planning and debatable questions- which stroller?  which diaper bag?  does he/she need this/that/the other thing?  what if?  delays?  turbulence?  sickness?  fever?  sippy cup in security?  who sits with whom?  where do we sit?  window?  will Brooks break something?  will Abby scream?  is there a snack on the plane?  what should I pack for them to eat?  why do I have to read the truck book for the 95th time?  why is there no wifi on this flight?  why is the free airport wifi seven dollars?  where is mcdonald's?  don't they have kids cups?  -- you get the point.  phew.  I'm glad our virgin flying trip with kids is over.  We will never be the seasoned pro but we at least have done it effectively. 


With Mary on the playground!




Just a little bit of luggage...

At the beach on Thursday!

First time at the beach.


So candid and cute.

Mmmm Capri sun!

Tickets to Disney!

Jessie goes too!

Small World- Grandpa Henry hates this place.

Her first character.  He is eating her head off here.


Waiting to see Tiana.

At the parade- hiding from the sun.


One of my favorites- and I think they did an amazing job with her makeup.






Chilling with grandpa on the reclining seat.


Airplane home.


I hate this seatbelt.  You are so mean for buckling me in. Put me back in my carseat.
I like summer.  I think that it would be nice if it was longer.  This year was a blessing- it's the longest one we have had or will have for awhile.  It's nice to watch the kids grow up and be quirky.  I love it. 

Monday, May 28, 2012

Spring and Summer!
















I realized that I have not written for awhile, so I need to get on the ball here.

We are two weeks from the end of the school year! I can't believe that I have to start my close of work procedures and turn in my final exams tomorrow.  Abby's last week of preschool is this week.  Her picnic is Thursday.  I am going to take a half day of work go see the fun.  I'm bittersweet.  I'm glad that she had a great time at preschool, learned social skills and made a friend or two.  I'm sad that she only has next year left and then kindergarten is around the corner.  And then we have to go to Target with the loooonng list of supplies that we have to pack in her backpack and send her off with.  She is growing up way too fast.

Brooks is talking more than he used to.  He has a pile of words.  His cutest are:  babies, cup, cookie and outside, hi and bye, shoes and socks.  His most infrequent words are:  downstairs, kitty, dog (dog-a), and love you.  He will give hugs now if you ask, and he is very charming- especially with ladies.  He loves to RUN.  Rarely does he sit down, and he is hard to control at points.  He's not making trouble, but he is just curious.  He also likes to eat.  Recently, we were talking about giving up his nighttime bottle.  Problem?  He drinks a sippy cup before bed, a bottle before bed, and recently he has been waking up at night for another bottle (or two).  He is starving.  Ideas?  Suggestions?

We are all looking forward to summer.  In July, we are going to fly (yes, fly) to Lael and Ben's house in Florida.  We were not going on vacation at all.  I have to work all summer, things are expensive and the kids could just stay at home.  When Ray and I were (young, tan and rested) first dating and married, we would just book flights and trips on a desire.  (Oh yeah, we also had money then.)  I would book a trip, e'mail it to him and tell him to take off work.  We had to stop that after having kids and this will be the first flight we have been on in five years.  We used to go somewhere every few months.  So, I think that this trip was more for us to go somewhere than for the kids (in some ways). Had we not had kids, we probably would have moved abroad and traveled from there- or been nomadic. Our trip to Paris was whim that I purchased at work for no other reason than the pictures looked pretty. So, getting back into some sense of travel-mode was actually refreshing And, Southwest had a deal!  This will be an interesting Henry family experience.  Abby has a loud-noise sensitivity and Brooks can't sit down.  Suggestions?

Abby went to pump-it-up for Brady's party this weekend.  It was fun and she really liked it.  I think that we might do a birthday party here.  Our birthday schedule is wicked.  We have Brooks, Thanksgiving, one week, Abby's birthday, two weeks and then Christmas.  Yikes! Maybe having one out of the house will be helpful?  On the way home I wasn't paying attention and drove through the airport.  She was excited about that, and I think that I will take her back one day to visit before we fly. 

Last night was movie night at Heather and Steve's.  Abby was excited.  Brooks didn't stay because he was falling over from exhaustion.  The movie was PeeWee's Big Adventure.  We got to the part where the bike was stolen from the clown and then Abby got scared.  I was surprised she made it that far.  I like Pee Wee's house.  He is the person you want to know because he is funny, but he is the person you do not want in your neighborhood because of property values.

Recently, we completed the March of Dimes Walk with Heather and Anna.  We didn't do well on donations, but we did great with the walk.  It was a nice cause to share with others.











This summer, we had also talked about doing small things like the Crayola factory.   If anyone has any suggestions of fun day trips, let me know!